T@ts Me

I am being asked a question, that everyone can give yourself a thought of it!

No matter what your current situation are,

if you are seeing someone now and decided to get married or you are already married, ask yourself this question:- in your next life will you want to be married with him/her again or if you previousy have a few relationship, who would you wish to be together again?

This will sure to give everyone some time to thik about it. Of course you are sure about yourself that you really love the person next to you now, then your answer would be simple and fast, cos it will be him/her.

Back to myself, I’m being ask ths question, given some thoughts, guess would still be my current ‘him’. What make this decision? A simple and strong answer, I feel the secrity and happiness when I am with him.

I did ask my current ‘him’ this question, but I told him I wouldn’t want his answer. Cause he have a few relationship before me and I am not clear about all the ladies before me. No matter how good or bad they are, I believe they sur did have a place on my current ‘him’ before.

I believe if my current him would reply me that ‘ if any one of the ladies he would choose for his future life and not being me, I’m sure I will feel upset and jealous’

or

‘If he sya he will choose me again, definitely I will be happy but hopefully that the truth from him and not just wanting to make me happy and he say that’.

So that why I told him I won’t demand him for any answer. All I need to do is to take the answer as it will be me to be chosen for his next life again. Hehe…. am i just too thick skinned???

Its difficult to decide who you really want to be in your next life or even your current life for some people but as long you are happy will do!

So who will that be for you?

At last 4 days of the training over on the problem solving & decision making.

This couse teaches us on PSDM, now all my head is on the course. The lecturer would start asking what is the deviation, what is the object? blar, blar, blar…..etc.

There is a always a process you need to make in your day to day life, sometimes you have to make an analysis what you want to buy, making decision which to buy, thinking of future problems or opportunity that you will be meeting when you buy certain things or even make certain decision. You won’t know that you are using the steps that KT teaches us but definitely you are using the steps.

KT teaches us on the more precise steps that we might need in our work……. but asking myself do we really have the time to us all the steps in our work when we are always running out of time in work.

sigh… life is really contridicting i guess… what is your next decision are you making which you cannot decide, maybe I can help you in it. Me an expert now, after I attended the course….. hehe… =P

Of cos none other is my 25th birthday.

After so many years of birthday, today is one of the happiest birthday I had! I have lots of my colleagues celebrating with me. Not forgetting my dear had given me a very pretty surprise!

Firstly in the morning, my ‘brother’ from my company shared with 2 other ex-colleague bought a very beautiful diamond necklace for me. This is the very 1st surprise today. I am really very touched by their actions.

Not forgetting, Jeffrey treated me for a birthday lunch! This is the second year that he do that for me. Really appreciated that.

Second surprise came after I came back from my lunch! I receive a bouquet of sunflowers. I thought that my dear gave it to me but its not. Then I started suspecting who is the secret admirer????? =D

There came the third surprise, another bouquet of flowers came in. That is the most beautiful colour that I have seen in roses! My favourite colour "Turqoise". A total of 18 roses with long long leaves surrounded it. They say it means by "Chang Chang Jiu Jiu". These roses definitely is by my Dear Wilson. I am really touched by that till I don’t know what to say.

Don’t forget the 2nd bouquet of flowers is from my colleagues. It is so sweet of them.

The last surprise, the store bought a cake for me. They even sang birthday song for me! I receive lots of best wishes from them, and in return i give the ladies each a kiss. Haha…

Thinking that this will be the end of my birthday’s surprises but another big one came after I finished my dinner at home. As I am checking my email, he appear in front of me! That is my dear. I thought that he had bought me a bouquet of flowers and that’s it. Never expected that he didn’t work for his overtime to give me a surprise and even bought another cake for me! I am so shocked and really touched that I cried! This is the first time that I feel so touched and cried! I guess I won’t forget this moment.

Really thanks everyone around me to give me such a nice 25th Birthday!!!

Luv u all so much!

sth u can get angry with urself if u need $$$ but u don’t hv it. then u will wish tat ur pay can be at a certain range that u expected. but it is difficult now in this ‘employer’s market’. 1 job 10 or more people grabbing for it.

open out the papers nowadays, u need at least a degree before you can get a job. if not u go for those low qualified jobs, then ur pay will be low. pay low, not enough $$$$ to use.

wat u use, need, wants, needs $$$.

pay ur handphone bill, daily expenses like food, transportation, entertainment, eg movies, going out with ur bf/gf/frens, buy clothes, do facial, give some pocket $$$ for your parents, going holidays  etc etc…. u need $$$

now govt also get money from you. 5% GST,  yearly income tax, decreasing in the % of CPF…. etc…..

sometimes u tell urself not to be bothered by $$$ but u still cannot escape from it. u hv to face with it, tat is y savings is very impt.

future is in front of u, definitely, for sure u need $$$ for your future plans, studies, wedding, future homes, kids, medical fees for old age etc.

$$$… where can we get them???? buy TOTO, 4D, dreaming someday u get rich from it. HAHAHAHA